Episode 65: The Great Tiny Penis Debate

The origin of today’s interview is this specific critique from a listener:

“Hello I’ve recently been listening to your podcast and I like it - I’m very sex positive, I’m a sensual man. Like you, I seek higher and better orgasms although I have been kink shamed in past relationships and turned down for having a high sex drive but I’m dealing with that - here is my issue, your podcast says it is sex positive and non shaming yet I’ve heard you speak in a negative way of men not having a big dick isn’t that shaming? Isn’t everyone positive in their own way? No one is perfect, u call urself a size queen ok but all the positive podcasts I hear tell me size doesn’t mater - if anything this is why guys send unsolicited dick pics cause either it does or it doesn’t.”

I shared my response to this in Episode 63: Listener Questions And Comments, but I also offered this listener the opportunity to hash this topic out in a specific episode, hence “The Great Tiny Penis Debate.”

***

Here’s the article referenced in our discussion: “Must Have Thick Skin And Big Dick”

and here’s another about the penises which have let me down: “The Most Disappointing Dicks I’ve Ever Encountered” [btw this list includes several big cocks!]