Alternate uses and clever solutions for lots of things…
Read MoreHe left a location with me and refused to go to his own home, deciding instead to ride with me and insert himself into my evening, all despite my telling him no…
Read MoreI have considered myself to be a glorious troublemaker and generally defiant for as long as I can remember. For equally long, I have believed myself to be a genius. …
Read MoreSuch seemingly perfect bedfellows, sex and travel, yet my attempts at combining the two have generally and utterly failed…
Read MoreWhat’s the point? Why bother? I ask myself these questions often. And yet I keep going...
Read MoreHaving sufficiently explored the park via sculpture safari and foot, we made our way to the bus area to lounge in the grass some more. How nice it was to starfish in the sun and catch a few minutes of shut eye before boarding…
Read MoreHere’s an exchange between myself and one of those strangers who ask for career advice on LinkedIn. The guy’s message has since disappeared despite my reply, so I've paraphrased my impression of his question and included my thoughtful response…
Read MoreEven before reading Marie Kondo's now infamous book, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, I had been performing periodic purges of my closet…
Read MoreI need help getting sunscreen on my back which is why I use spray sunscreen. Through the years I have tried multiple brands and the sprayers have always been fairly shitty and I've never quite felt truly protected but honey bunny that's all changed…
Read MoreI saw a giant standing poster for it while in line for the ladies room and one of the quotes on the board was "the role Ethan Hawke was meant to play" or some shit like that. While watching this movie, that quote kept popping into my mind and I kept thinking, poor Ethan Hawke…
Read MoreOne of my best accessory purchases of all time is my black leather card wallet. I purchased it in person at the Smythson of Bond Street…
Read MoreMeditation doesn't have to be complicated and it certainly doesn't require any special equipment. It can be easily practiced by simply being quiet, anywhere you may find yourself, during any activity [or non-activity]. Mindful intention is all that's required to transform an ordinary act into a meditative practice…
Read MoreHaving sex with a new partner is a risky game. As a straight woman, my two major concerns are: how big is his dick, and am I going to get out of this alive…
Read MoreNot too long ago, I wrote about the act of shaving my head — what led to the decision, how it happened, how I reacted... Well it's been over five months since I first cut all my hair off and I've learned some things…
Read MoreFood, objects, smells and random experiences…
Read MoreBaby zucchini — who cares right? Wrong! I tried them for the first time just a couple of weeks ago and boy have I been missing out…
Read MoreMy rapist is number 33 on my list of sexual partners and differentiated with a ~ before his entry. He is listed as 'Handsy', which is what I dubbed him upon our introduction; the foreshadowing of that nickname still makes me sick…
Read MoreSometimes in casual conversation I reference the fact that I'm going to be 40. This started when I was 37 and it seemed healthy, a way to get myself comfortable with the idea. But somewhere along the way I began having to stop and think, how old am I really?…
Read MoreChange is tough. It’s uncomfortable, inconvenient and just an all-around pain in the ass. I have struggled with change in a million and one different ways and what has helped me the most is…
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